How is the best way to have an orgasm ?
I have problems, I can't achieve orgasms during sex....help !
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Quite a large majority of women do not have orgasms from intercourse alone. Most women require clitoral stimulation. Given that, I am always amazed at the number of women that ask this same question. If you can have an orgasm by yourself, you can have an orgasm during sex. Just get on top, reach down and stimulate your clitoris. I prefer reverse cowgirl for that because it’s easier to maneuver. Of course it would be gentlemanly of your partner to do this for you, but if he's otherwise engaged there is absolutely nothing to stop you from taking matters into your own hands, so to speak. Don’t be shy, your guy will enjoy the show.
Also, oral helps A LOT. If your man gets you “warmed up”, you’re a lot more likely to get fireworks during the main event.
Talk to your partner. If he’s not at least trying to push your buttons, he needs a firm nudge in the right direction.